oh yeah cool thing- do what you like, what you want, and what makes you happy. listen to the music you like. eat the food you like. date the people you like. have the job you want/need. fuck what anyone else thinks about it. don’t do things to impress other people. focus on your own happiness. that sounds so incredibly selfish and we are a culture that is taught that selfishness is bad, but please believe me you will be able to appreciate and love other people so much more once you are in tune with yourself. know what you like and don’t like, know what you want. and fucking live it. soak it all in because we are all gonna die and how shitty would it be to not live a life that you love?
Heart Beats Slow - Angus & Julia Stone
ok so pretty much anyone I’ve made out with/cuddled with has complemented me for having soft skin/soft lips and I literally just chalked this up to something men say to women, like you have pretty eyes or whatever. but I’m really good friends with two guys that I hooked up with at different points in my life and I had drinks with one of them the other day and we were just talking about how nice it is that we can be friends now and how it was awkward for a while and he gave me this look and chuckled and didn’t say anything. so I was like what?? and long story short he told me they used to call me soft lips because literally I have the softest lips ever and now I have a big ego about my soft lips !!!
oh my god the little girl I just started nannying continues to be amazing!!! today when I picked her up she started talking about her family, how she doesn’t have siblings but she has a lot of cousins and then she said “we have a lot of dogs in our family” and starting listing the names of the dogs and I asked what the names of her cousins were and she just said “doesn’t matter. dogs are more important.” perfect child.